sugarpuddin88 Says:
Mar 31, 2008 - (mental note to self: God help me if that didn't come out well)
LaReinaDelBarrio Says:
Mar 31, 2008 - Maybe you interpreted this wrong. Its not about grooming. I'm not sure WHAT having more gay makeover shows would do for gay men, that's like saying the solution is lets give all the gays florist jobs and all the black men shoeshine boxes. Its the same thing. What did you think the video was about?Gays hurt each other more than bashers do - with words.
kannon9 Says:
Mar 31, 2008 - I can't believe that pple are so mean to each other. PPle we have to be nice to each other. If someone can't say something nice to someone just be silent. Good vid Ian.
LaReinaDelBarrio Says:
Mar 31, 2008 - Thank you. A memorial site is being made in memory of LaReina. She did a lot in a short time before her murder.
LaReinaDelBarrio Says:
Mar 31, 2008 - Time is short and there is no time to go after individuals. The bigger problem is our treatment of each other and the fact that the straights see it and judge and we aren't even aware of it.
LaReinaDelBarrio Says:
Mar 31, 2008 - If the gay man was so lacking in confidence in his own talents that he felt he had to go to a straight man for a job, then that is sad. The truly successful gay man strikes out on his own, doesn't go into business with other men, and doesn't let it all get destroyed by a live-in extortionist with expensive tastes and no means of income.
kannon9 Says:
Apr 1, 2008 - Well amigo she can be like the Phoenix Bird and arise a stronger woman out of the ashes. La Reina is incredible I think you just need to get that certain someone out of your house.
LaReinaDelBarrio Says:
Apr 1, 2008 - They're gone and behind bars. Good riddance.
LaReinaDelBarrio Says:
Apr 1, 2008 - Sugar, if straights want to learn how to arrange flowers, groom dogs, do hair, or suck dick - they can freaking ASK. Please don't assume they even care. Some men are crazy and will kill you for asking.
sugarpuddin88 Says:
Mar 31, 2008 - My Idea of a solution: Have more TV programming of Gay Men helping Straight Men do things betterDressingGroomingCommunicationShoppingDecorating!I feel many straight males often have too few character facets - I don't think that is going to help the straight male do well in the 21st centuryFor straight males to be more successful and more effective in the 21st century, they are going to have to learn from those experts within the gay population who have mastered the aforementioned pts